Hospital, tears and anger
3 weeks ago my dad had a fall at home & managed to call an ambulance, had scans etc and outcome was a floating piece of bone/ slight fracture in his neck. He refused to wear a Collar so at 3am he was discharged. Since then he has been obviouly in a lot of pain, and just laid on his bed losing interest in everything.On Monday I called the doctor as he hadn't eaten or drank for two days, was physically shaking and not very responsive. He was admitted to hospital as doctor thought he may have a UTI or possibly sepsis & definitely needed fluids.
Once he was on a ward he became really frightened, crying and clinging to me, why had I taken him there & begging me not to leave him. I rang first thing yesterday morning to be told he had settled and had a good night but tests were still being done. When I went to visit I couldn't believe how he had deteriorated in just 24 hours. He had no idea where he was, what was happening and nothing he said made sense. Yet if a nurse came over he would become really charming! When I came to leave there were more tears and he was quite agitated. After 9pm I had a call from the hospital saying would I speak to dad to calm him down as he was agitated & getting angry. The same has happened again tonight.
While he was at home I would have numerous calls but I can't believe the hospital keep ringing me to try and calm him
In one way I'm relieved he is in hospital but then feeling guilty and am dreading what might happen next.
3 weeks ago my dad had a fall at home & managed to call an ambulance, had scans etc and outcome was a floating piece of bone/ slight fracture in his neck. He refused to wear a Collar so at 3am he was discharged. Since then he has been obviouly in a lot of pain, and just laid on his bed losing interest in everything.On Monday I called the doctor as he hadn't eaten or drank for two days, was physically shaking and not very responsive. He was admitted to hospital as doctor thought he may have a UTI or possibly sepsis & definitely needed fluids.
Once he was on a ward he became really frightened, crying and clinging to me, why had I taken him there & begging me not to leave him. I rang first thing yesterday morning to be told he had settled and had a good night but tests were still being done. When I went to visit I couldn't believe how he had deteriorated in just 24 hours. He had no idea where he was, what was happening and nothing he said made sense. Yet if a nurse came over he would become really charming! When I came to leave there were more tears and he was quite agitated. After 9pm I had a call from the hospital saying would I speak to dad to calm him down as he was agitated & getting angry. The same has happened again tonight.
While he was at home I would have numerous calls but I can't believe the hospital keep ringing me to try and calm him
In one way I'm relieved he is in hospital but then feeling guilty and am dreading what might happen next.