My husband came home from two weeks respite care on tuesday afternoon, and spent most of wednesday and thursday sleeping, but yesterday he was more or less back to his normal self, His sitter who came in the afternoon said he'd been quite restless changing from one chair to another, then wandering about the house, but although the sundowning can be quite tiring, it does mean he's back to his old self. We went out this afternoon, I have to push him in his wheel chair as we don't have a car, and he can't do busses any more. We went to Costa for tea and cake, and the way he ate the cake you'd have thought he was starving, but he didn't want to stay long. He seems to have lost quite a bit of weight in respite, just as I'd started building him up from the time when he lost his appetite.