Morning everyone, was wondering if anyone had advice on how to deal with my father who has just come home from a weeks respite in a care home. his week was terrible. He cried most of the time, asked for me and my mam and although my mam has had a break (sort of) , when i have brought him home he was SO angry at me. why why why ?? all the time...where has we been??? He s done with me he says and last night he would not take his meds.
This morning he is so confused and barely knows my mam. I dare not go round (ringing every half hour) incas e I make him worse. In short, I feel like the worst person in the world. My idea for respite as my mam was on rock bottom but i think ive made him 100 times worse. He looks terrible. lost weight, grey face ...Anyone been through this part ?
Im terrified Ive made it worse for my mam...thank you for reading this x
This morning he is so confused and barely knows my mam. I dare not go round (ringing every half hour) incas e I make him worse. In short, I feel like the worst person in the world. My idea for respite as my mam was on rock bottom but i think ive made him 100 times worse. He looks terrible. lost weight, grey face ...Anyone been through this part ?
Im terrified Ive made it worse for my mam...thank you for reading this x