Hello all I have put everything in place and am leaving my Mum tomorrow to go to Australia for 13 days. I have to go and I desperately need a break but I know she will be totally lost without me. She had a horrible time at a memory clinic diagnosis afternoon this week. She was so stressed that she had bad incontinence which was a total humilation for her and very upsetting for me. She so lovely I feel so sorry for her. She having an MRI soon as its thought she may have vascular dementia. Can anyone reassure me it's OK to go abroad?!!