Hi
I need some help, and im not too sure if this is the right place to post my thread.
My mother has alzheimer, and the problem that i have my family will not allow me to see her.
I got married several years ago, and my grandmother and siblings did not agree to the marriage, a year later my mother was dignosied with AD.
Since then i have not seen my mother, except several months ago, when she was in hospital. My mother looked weak, and she could no longer talk, inside i was crying, and i could see the pain in my mothers eyes. She would look at me and smile, in my heart i believe she knew how i was.
I need to see my mum, and im totally lost, i've come to the point if i think about it i get depressed. But i also have two children, so i need to be strong for them.
I have tried to go to the house to see my mother but get the door slammed in my face, i have sent presents on mothers day etc, but have no reply. I try and speak to my siblings, but they have told me they want nothing to do with me.
ps mum and dad are divorced, so dad cant help.
if anyone can help me to get closer to my mum i would really appreciate it.
ever option i have tried, i get a dead end.
im really sorry for going on, but thankyou for reading my thread
thanks
I need some help, and im not too sure if this is the right place to post my thread.
My mother has alzheimer, and the problem that i have my family will not allow me to see her.
I got married several years ago, and my grandmother and siblings did not agree to the marriage, a year later my mother was dignosied with AD.
Since then i have not seen my mother, except several months ago, when she was in hospital. My mother looked weak, and she could no longer talk, inside i was crying, and i could see the pain in my mothers eyes. She would look at me and smile, in my heart i believe she knew how i was.
I need to see my mum, and im totally lost, i've come to the point if i think about it i get depressed. But i also have two children, so i need to be strong for them.
I have tried to go to the house to see my mother but get the door slammed in my face, i have sent presents on mothers day etc, but have no reply. I try and speak to my siblings, but they have told me they want nothing to do with me.
ps mum and dad are divorced, so dad cant help.
if anyone can help me to get closer to my mum i would really appreciate it.
ever option i have tried, i get a dead end.
im really sorry for going on, but thankyou for reading my thread
thanks