Hi everybody,
I haven't posted much since mum died in August 2010 but I visit daily and read everybody's posts. It helps me to come to terms with what happened with mum.
Now, I really need some support because of what's happened today. It's not easy for me to ask for support as I've always tried to deal with everything myself.
My partner has had back pain for the past two years and got early retirement from his job as a delivery driver because of it. It's not got any better and at the end of February he had such severe pain that we ended up in A&E. The doctor recommended an MRI scan which he had a fortnight ago.
We went to see his consultant today- expecting to hear trapped nerve etc.........Then the consultant showed us the MRI scan compared to the one he had done in Oct 2010.
Basically, he said that there was something there that shoudn't be there. Translated it means that he thinks it could be cancerous.
We're both in shock- but I've had to say to him that I can't be his carer should it come to that. He agrees as he knows what I went through with mum.
We're not anywhere near that yet but I just wanted to share with you where I'm at and receive your support.
With Love
Tarika
I haven't posted much since mum died in August 2010 but I visit daily and read everybody's posts. It helps me to come to terms with what happened with mum.
Now, I really need some support because of what's happened today. It's not easy for me to ask for support as I've always tried to deal with everything myself.
My partner has had back pain for the past two years and got early retirement from his job as a delivery driver because of it. It's not got any better and at the end of February he had such severe pain that we ended up in A&E. The doctor recommended an MRI scan which he had a fortnight ago.
We went to see his consultant today- expecting to hear trapped nerve etc.........Then the consultant showed us the MRI scan compared to the one he had done in Oct 2010.
Basically, he said that there was something there that shoudn't be there. Translated it means that he thinks it could be cancerous.
We're both in shock- but I've had to say to him that I can't be his carer should it come to that. He agrees as he knows what I went through with mum.
We're not anywhere near that yet but I just wanted to share with you where I'm at and receive your support.
With Love
Tarika