Hi everyone, a little about why I'm here: I recently found out my grandmother has been placed in a care home as she has declined in health she has dementia and has gotten worse to the point she thinks I'm still 4 years old, anyway I called the care home and she was asleep so i called again but no response, I then get a phone call from my mother who said they decline to put me through to her as it may cause her to get agitated and if I came to visit her I wouldn't be allowed to see her without my aunt ( has power of attorney) which I'm not sure on the laws here but can they really not let me see my own grandmother? It's not a quick trip back to the UK and if I don't get to see her I would be devastated. I think my aunt is concerned I'm coming over for money seen as she just sold my grandmothers house to "pay for care costs" but that's not the case I would rather visit her than come over for a funeral. Apologies for my ramble but I'm not sure what I can do and the laws regarding relatives visiting in care homes and wether my aunt as power of attorney can legally block me from seeing her. Thanks