We have been married 30 years, together about 40. Sometime last summer, my husband told me his wife had gone in the night, seemingly to her sisters, and taken his money with her. I have spent hours since, trying to convince him his money is not missing, and have managed to laugh off the fact that his wife had disappeared and I had slotted into her place. A few months ago, he told me she had died!! I listen to stories about her and he often refers to his wife, in a very matter of fact way.
Today, over lunch he asked me who I was? Seemingly he didn’t know me and I wasn’t as nice as the other one who had been here. Don’t know what I did wrong, today!! I try and smile and be nice most of the time!! Is this something anyone else has come across? I put up with rebuilding our relationship once, I’m not sure I have the energy to start again as number 3!!!!
I’ve been feeling a bit down today anyway. Our 30 year anniversary is in April and it made me sad to think he has no recollection of all the good times we’ve had and we will have nothing to share on the day.
Today, over lunch he asked me who I was? Seemingly he didn’t know me and I wasn’t as nice as the other one who had been here. Don’t know what I did wrong, today!! I try and smile and be nice most of the time!! Is this something anyone else has come across? I put up with rebuilding our relationship once, I’m not sure I have the energy to start again as number 3!!!!
I’ve been feeling a bit down today anyway. Our 30 year anniversary is in April and it made me sad to think he has no recollection of all the good times we’ve had and we will have nothing to share on the day.