My grandma has just had seen a doctor at the memory clinic, where she lives...my dad went with her and Grandma has become alot worse than she was originally. She is now refusing to take her tablets...well more to the point she'll "take them when she wants" which isn't right because there is alot of money spent on those tablets, which aren't being given out now (or something, i can't really remember, but it was in the news recently).
The doctor asked Grandma if she had considered moving closer to us. She took it as moving in with us. The doctor then told her off for confusing the issue.
She is still calling my dad by her late husband's name, which was picked up on by the doctor. Finally.
Later in the car, after dad had taken her for a meal she told dad that if she went into a home she'd kill herself. We don't know whether it's emotional blackmail or the truth.
She isn't eating properly anymore...her dinner consists of half an individual steak pie from M&S or a couple of cocktail sausage rolls.
Her sister is refusing to help her after they had an argument, because grandma can't keep track of who she is dialing, can't accept the help being given to her or anything.
Grandma is still alienating people because they only want to know her business.
She was having visits from a nurse (sent by her GP), but she put on an act (which she is very capable of doing...it's almost like a dual personality), said that she was taking her tablets and now the nurse doesn't come anymore.
I Know that my grandma isn't the only one who has alzheimers, but is there anyone else who is in this position...is all this just because of the illness? Does it exaggerate certain personality traits? i've read that some people with alzheimers can become violent...is this true of all sufferers?
Thank you for reading this and to those who post replies...
It's nice knowing there are other people who will listen.
xxx
The doctor asked Grandma if she had considered moving closer to us. She took it as moving in with us. The doctor then told her off for confusing the issue.
She is still calling my dad by her late husband's name, which was picked up on by the doctor. Finally.
Later in the car, after dad had taken her for a meal she told dad that if she went into a home she'd kill herself. We don't know whether it's emotional blackmail or the truth.
She isn't eating properly anymore...her dinner consists of half an individual steak pie from M&S or a couple of cocktail sausage rolls.
Her sister is refusing to help her after they had an argument, because grandma can't keep track of who she is dialing, can't accept the help being given to her or anything.
Grandma is still alienating people because they only want to know her business.
She was having visits from a nurse (sent by her GP), but she put on an act (which she is very capable of doing...it's almost like a dual personality), said that she was taking her tablets and now the nurse doesn't come anymore.
I Know that my grandma isn't the only one who has alzheimers, but is there anyone else who is in this position...is all this just because of the illness? Does it exaggerate certain personality traits? i've read that some people with alzheimers can become violent...is this true of all sufferers?
Thank you for reading this and to those who post replies...
It's nice knowing there are other people who will listen.
xxx