My dads just died leaving me with mother who has AD. She needs 24 hour care and has got worse since he died three weeks ago. She has fallen three times in three weeks last time being last night. I have two kids age 7 and 4. Social Services are useless but coming round Monday. I've had to take a bank loan to pay for her personal care with an agency. I'm at my wits end. My kids are suffering, my husbands been great but running out of patience.
She's also incontenant both ways. Doctor won't help. Tesco pads are useless, District nurse dosn't want to know.
I've tried my local MP who lives two doors away but she's useless as well.
Can anyone help??
Where do I start???
What do I do???
Can't and won't put her in a 'home' as this was my last promise to my dad.
HHHEEELLLPPPP
She's also incontenant both ways. Doctor won't help. Tesco pads are useless, District nurse dosn't want to know.
I've tried my local MP who lives two doors away but she's useless as well.
Can anyone help??
Where do I start???
What do I do???
Can't and won't put her in a 'home' as this was my last promise to my dad.
HHHEEELLLPPPP