Hi all, it has been a while since I logged in here. Mum has been ill for some time now and we thought we had seen most of what had to come. But I could really use some advice. Mum has been parked on the end of her bed since 9.30am. She would not get dressed or take her medicine or even consider the thought of daycare today. We have trried being nice, being firm, being not so nice (I know I shouldn't but sometimes it gets very hard being so reasonable all the time) She is still in her p.j's and has just given the nod for a cup of tea. I am in the process of reading a book called "Contented Dementia". So far all the reasoning in it refers to times of the day we may call "quality" which is not very helpful for this moment in time. Please, please if you have any advice it would be gratefully recieved, I just want to keep her healthy and happy, but every time she looks at me lately I seem to have developed two rather large red horns.
Terri
Terri