My mum has Alzheimer’s. diagnosed three years ago. My brother, his wife and one year old daughter live with her in her house. My auntie sent me a very rude text saying my mum should live with me and I’ve made the wrong choice. I work 8 til one Mon to Fri and also look after my Grandson two afternoons a week. I take her out every Tuesday afternoon and she stays with me one weekend a month. I’ve only been with my partner 18 months and moved in to his house last year so they obviously don’t know each other that well. He has said he would never even consider moving his mum in with us! Maybe years down the line that would be an option. She has a carer every morning for personal care and medication as my brother can’t do it. I totally understand why! I’m 51 and feel like I’m being made out to be really awful and It’s making me feel so guilty. I’d really appreciate any help xx