Hi,
I am a new user looking for some help and advice. My 80 year old Mother in law has early stages of alzheimers and being cared for by my 80 year old father in law. He is struggling and the plan is for them to move to a bungalow in their village and for us to buy their house off them and move so we will be close. However she has become more forgetful recently and my father in law is concerned that she won't cope with the move. I am not sure how to ake it easier. They currently live in a large house with lots of steps that they are struggling to manage. We are 20 inutes away so between working and bringing up kids the practical help we can offer from here is mininimal. Are we doing the right thing or is it going to cause more problems ? Any tips on making the move less confusing for her. She already has periods of feeling her current home is not hers. She is excited about the move.
Hope this plea for advice makes sense !
I am a new user looking for some help and advice. My 80 year old Mother in law has early stages of alzheimers and being cared for by my 80 year old father in law. He is struggling and the plan is for them to move to a bungalow in their village and for us to buy their house off them and move so we will be close. However she has become more forgetful recently and my father in law is concerned that she won't cope with the move. I am not sure how to ake it easier. They currently live in a large house with lots of steps that they are struggling to manage. We are 20 inutes away so between working and bringing up kids the practical help we can offer from here is mininimal. Are we doing the right thing or is it going to cause more problems ? Any tips on making the move less confusing for her. She already has periods of feeling her current home is not hers. She is excited about the move.
Hope this plea for advice makes sense !