To day - the phone calls :
Hi Mum, today dad whod have been 70 ' whow can't belive it. Love to you and Lionel , John.
Hello Mum, Dad who'ed have bein 70 today. Will you and Lionel drop by and have lunch on Sunday after you have been to the cemetry, love Simon.
Yesturday Lionel's daughter called, first time in 4 years. I would like to se my Dad.
What do I do. My sons accept the situation. Their Dad is dead, but Mum still has a life, albeit caring for a lovely man who has dementia.Lionels children are still hostile.
As I write, he is asleep on the sofa. Yes I will p ut him to bed, and make preparation for tomorrow, but where am I in all this?
I want to to the very best for my dear Lionel, but I have to keep a little bit of me back.
I have told hid daughter he does not wish to see her, his words to me.
That may clarify the situation for them, but what about me. I AM SO CONFUSED>
Connie
Hi Mum, today dad whod have been 70 ' whow can't belive it. Love to you and Lionel , John.
Hello Mum, Dad who'ed have bein 70 today. Will you and Lionel drop by and have lunch on Sunday after you have been to the cemetry, love Simon.
Yesturday Lionel's daughter called, first time in 4 years. I would like to se my Dad.
What do I do. My sons accept the situation. Their Dad is dead, but Mum still has a life, albeit caring for a lovely man who has dementia.Lionels children are still hostile.
As I write, he is asleep on the sofa. Yes I will p ut him to bed, and make preparation for tomorrow, but where am I in all this?
I want to to the very best for my dear Lionel, but I have to keep a little bit of me back.
I have told hid daughter he does not wish to see her, his words to me.
That may clarify the situation for them, but what about me. I AM SO CONFUSED>
Connie