please help havent got clue where to start my parents are 80 yrs old dad just been told he has alzheimers,how or what can i do to make this alittle easier for them both my dad always been head strong man and worry so much for what is ahead .????
If this is just your dad that is affected , in my experience, I would look at contacting the local dementia care team (if your local authority have one) and checking if they can provide guidance, maybe some local social clubs and activities that your dad may enjoy. Also investigate if a carer per day could be provided or employed by yourself as this will make it easier on you and your dad. I have found that being a carer and family is a tricky situation and can lead to confrontations and resentment - they see it as a loss of their independence. Also maybe look at obtaining an assessment by Occupational Therapy to provide eqpt etc for the house to maintain your dads independence and safety. There is so much assistance and guidance out there that maybe isn't made easily available - please don't be afraid to ask, the sooner the better and possibly the easier it will be in the long run.please help havent got clue where to start my parents are 80 yrs old dad just been told he has alzheimers,how or what can i do to make this alittle easier for them both my dad always been head strong man and worry so much for what is ahead .????