thanks for your support in the past . my husband died last night , feel num , unreal, just got home , i stayed at the hospital for 7 days. glad i did .we had time to be together without me having to do shoping,cleaning cooking and all his care, we just held hands , looked into each others eyes. we always were a sloppy pair. 35 happy years of marrage even dementia or having to hoist and do every thing for him could never change that. He was my soulmate . now the caring is over what does one do? has any of you had any experiance of this with a partner ?