Hi don't normally post anything but read people posts who are struggle with dealing with a loved one with alzheimers but me and my sisters are in a situation regarding our mum and don't no which way to go .. my mum had to go into a care home about 19 months ago which for her was no probs before she went in there where issues with changing her clothes one a daily basses and bathing... we have now been served from her care home a safe guarding on her and she has to be moved into a nursing dementia home which are very far and few on top of this she over the months has become more agitated also she has Osteoporosis she is on no medication not even pain killers and is deteriorating every day also some days don't sleep much in days we now have the problem in finding the right nursing dementia home for her and they are very far and few with beds available .... frown emoticon