my friend of 30years was diagnosed with vascular dementia several years ago when in his late 50s he was told that the medicalprofesion knew little about dementia in such young age groups since his diagnose he has been left to cope with this on his own without any help and support for both of us i now care for john has his condition worsens yet still our pleas for help and advice go unheard his gp does nt want to know orhelp his hospitial consultant has now gone over a year without any contact at all its like saying you have to get on with it your self has someone who sees john 24 hours a day most days i feel i am in a postion to offer information on his well being john is a very difficult to assit with him still very independently minded i do my best but with several disablities find it difficult and no respite i have been asked what help and advice i might need but never been in this postion before i have little or no idea we both know time is not on his side the last 12 months have been hell i would be very gratful if any one taking time to read this can offer any help or advice