All the fact sheets refer to encouraging someone to go to the GP, and that treatment is volountary. What do you do if the person is completely refusing to do that ? I really can't cope with this, I also look after my brother who has mental problems, and my dad's weird actions are affecting him. All this talk of "get support", but I just CAN NOT DEAL WITH MY DAD, I don't want him in the house, I feel so guilty saying that. I feel like i've got a stone in my chest, I have contant headaches, and feel fear almost all day.