Thank you all
Firstly thank you all so much for your kind replies - I immediatly feel at home- You have all given me food for thought and I will persist with our Doctors - trying a different partner.
My anger and frustration at this stupid test ; Question - What floor are we on (bearing in mind there are cars in a car park clearly visible just outside the window) -
Then what day of the week is it - (its Monday)
Mum..... Its erm Sunday, now erm Wednesday, no no Monday - How many bites of the cherry are they allowed.
I so do share the opinions of some of you that these are not NICE but rather NASTY guidlines and for people like Mum who have worked and saved all their lives, to be told - get sicker, lose more of your brain cells and get more confused and then and only then will we consider giving you something that might help.
What kind of sick society to we live in that we treat our elderly(and in the case of some poor sufferers - younger) citizens in such an appaling and uncaring way.
As you can see I am building for my soap box......
Dad died last year aged 81 after many long illnesses, the bravest and most optimistic man I ever knew. The one thing he got depressed about and worried , was Mums very obvious loss of memory. I promised him obviously, that my sister and I would do our best and in fact I now almost live with Mum (luckily our houses are minutes apart) During the week I work so at the moment she is able to cope and we discuss in the morning what dinner will be and write everything on a notice board by the door - This works mostly......
We do laugh sometimes about her senior moments and sometimes I get exsasperated at having to repeat myself again and again - I almost feel ashamed to say this as I know that she cannot help herself.
I see the fear in her eyes and will never forget her face when the consultant confirmed what I already knew. Sometimes I dwell in the future and then I cry and get so scared....But, as my old grandmother would say 'this won't buy the baby a new hat' so we just pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and start all over again.......
Thank you all once again, I will chew over all your advice and kind kind words - If and when I get anywhere I will report back and hope to be a frequent visitor to our lifeline.
God bless you all
Mazzer