Hello everyone,
I wrote before how my Grandad is struggiling to look after my nan.
After finally having the oppurtunity to talk to him on his own i have found out that he never gets chance to speak to my nan's doctors on his own. Whenever they speak to her she always say's that everything is fine when to my grandad it obviously isn't but he doesn't want to contridict her in front of them. She goes to the memory clinic every copule of months and she has a consultant at our local mental health hospital but he doesn't know if she has a cpn nurse and i know she hasn't got a social worker.
What i am asking you all is there anyway i can find out this information and if anyone knows if they will even speak to me as i am only her grand - daughter not her next of kin or her carer. I am just trying to find away of trying to relive some of the pressure from my grandad as i can not physically help as i can not get there easily and my uncle is a useless fool who doesn't even offer to help even though he only lives five minutes away.
sorry for carrying on any advice would be gratefully recived
Emma
I wrote before how my Grandad is struggiling to look after my nan.
After finally having the oppurtunity to talk to him on his own i have found out that he never gets chance to speak to my nan's doctors on his own. Whenever they speak to her she always say's that everything is fine when to my grandad it obviously isn't but he doesn't want to contridict her in front of them. She goes to the memory clinic every copule of months and she has a consultant at our local mental health hospital but he doesn't know if she has a cpn nurse and i know she hasn't got a social worker.
What i am asking you all is there anyway i can find out this information and if anyone knows if they will even speak to me as i am only her grand - daughter not her next of kin or her carer. I am just trying to find away of trying to relive some of the pressure from my grandad as i can not physically help as i can not get there easily and my uncle is a useless fool who doesn't even offer to help even though he only lives five minutes away.
sorry for carrying on any advice would be gratefully recived
Emma