My Mum lives with my step dad and since March and his retirement he has stopped access to her.
Having involved all the Social Services, the Police and now an IMCA, she continues to tell them she doesn't want to see or ring me.
I'm empty, lost, grieving. I don't understand why, but because that's her wishes, (even tho with every bone in my body I know she is under his negative influence,) what can I do? I have to listen to her wishes and respect them.
I am however, in such a state, is there anyone out there who has or is experiencing the same kind of rejection.
It's so cruel, my Mum would never exclude me her daughterm never. But it's what she is saying now.
How do I come to terms with it.
Ive offerened my services as a volunteer to the Alzhiemers sociaty, but haven't heard anything yer. I dont think they will take me on cos of the family rejection/conflict, Im struggling to go on. I miss her so much.
Sorry x
Having involved all the Social Services, the Police and now an IMCA, she continues to tell them she doesn't want to see or ring me.
I'm empty, lost, grieving. I don't understand why, but because that's her wishes, (even tho with every bone in my body I know she is under his negative influence,) what can I do? I have to listen to her wishes and respect them.
I am however, in such a state, is there anyone out there who has or is experiencing the same kind of rejection.
It's so cruel, my Mum would never exclude me her daughterm never. But it's what she is saying now.
How do I come to terms with it.
Ive offerened my services as a volunteer to the Alzhiemers sociaty, but haven't heard anything yer. I dont think they will take me on cos of the family rejection/conflict, Im struggling to go on. I miss her so much.
Sorry x