Hello, I’m new to this so near with me and have my mum who is 81 living with me since June after loosing my Dad. Mum has Alzheimer’s and some days just refuses to get out of bed to wash or eat she is fully mobile but likes to be in bed all the while. I don’t know what the best thing to do when this happens and I find it really frustrating and I have to admit to having feelings of anger which I then feel really guilty about can anyone give any advice please