Hi all. Been lurking - inside nice and warm I hasten to add before you start worrying.
Wow such kindness is overwhelming - all of you - those who just read , those who posted you are amazing people.
I really don't want to miss thanking someone who smothered me in support so could you please understand if I don't mention your name individually now.
THANK YOU ALL
I am back at my own home now. Earlier than originally planned. Major decisions need to made by me for myself and my own sanity. The thinking today is to walk away..... Continue to visit mum - she's my mum - but have no other responsibility for her or the financing of her future care. Who knows what it will be tomorrow? Two weeks down the line I think I will know what's right for me - and if I do decide to walk away..... It will be a long, hard thought, painful decision. I now feel my sanity is my priority...... What keeps my sanity safe....... That's the decision isn't it.
Wow such kindness is overwhelming - all of you - those who just read , those who posted you are amazing people.
I really don't want to miss thanking someone who smothered me in support so could you please understand if I don't mention your name individually now.
THANK YOU ALL
I am back at my own home now. Earlier than originally planned. Major decisions need to made by me for myself and my own sanity. The thinking today is to walk away..... Continue to visit mum - she's my mum - but have no other responsibility for her or the financing of her future care. Who knows what it will be tomorrow? Two weeks down the line I think I will know what's right for me - and if I do decide to walk away..... It will be a long, hard thought, painful decision. I now feel my sanity is my priority...... What keeps my sanity safe....... That's the decision isn't it.