My husband is very loving but his VD is getting worse as he has had a lot of epilatic fits and has been hospitalised. He doesn't always realise I am his wife but nows I am looking after him and clings to me. Sometimes I feel stifled although he goes to day care once a week. I have just booked a weeks respite and don't know how I will leave him there in the CH. He hasn't, settled in day care because he is away from me, how am I going to manage?