My mother has dementia, we have always had a very close relationship. My sister did not have a good relationship with my mother until she obtained POA Myself and siblings have P.O.A for finance only. My sister and boyfriend have been awful to us blackmailing us, recording us, sending treating messages, police have issued an harnesment warning notice. The problem is they have moved themselves into my mothers home and are using her bank accounts to pay for almost everything. The last time we visited they physically attacked us but as there were no independent witnesses it couldn't be pursued. SS have been involved over the years as my sister has refused to communicate and has refused mediation. My sister is now telling SS we are not allowed to visit my mother in her own home? But that my mother can be dropped off at a coffee shop where we can see her. We drive 8 hours there and Back to visit my mother and have little precious time with her as it is, but is it right to expect my 86 year old mother to walk the streets and she has extremely poor mobility. please help we don't know where to turn. Thank you Ps Blue Socks wrote something very simulator in 2014 and it was nearly identical to the problems we are facing.