Hi, I'm brand new to this site and am only posting out of desperation for my mum. My grandad (mums dad) suffers badly from vascular dementia and has done since my nan died about 4-5 years ago. He's got progressively worse and now he doesn't recognise his family, is violent and cannot care for himself. A few years ago his socila worker admited him to the hospital for a assessment, from there he we to a EMI unit (not nursing) from there he deteriorated and was readmited to hospital to have his condition and medication reviewed. From there he was sent back to EMI where they increase his medication which only made him zombie like, he couldn't talk, walk, eat and he even dribbled. From here he was sent back to the hospital for another review then sent back to EMI where he became too violent towards residents and staff. He was eventually sent back to hospital where he was then sent to another home (EMI) but this time nursing as he canot care very well to his self. My mum (out of 5 of his children and 13 of his grandchildren) is the only person to visit him and takes all responsibility for him. My mum works full-time and lives miles away from the home where he is. She is the only one that does ANYTHING for him and I can tell its starting to get her down. Today my mum recieved a phone call from the new EMI unit that he is in only to be told he had attacked two people (one resident and one member of staff) He attacked the resident with her own walking stick. He also wrecked the other residents belongings ect...He has become too much for this place and has been re-admited to hospital today. My mum is at her witts end and she does not know what is next. Everything seems to have been exhausted and she just broke down today. I've searched the internet to find out what is next but can't find a thing. Anny help at all would truley be appreciated. Thank you very much in advance. Anna