My Mothers at the early stages and lives with my sister who is joint owner of their house , should my mother have to go into a home would my sister have problems relating to the house (to cover costs etc.)? This is something we dread but think it might end up happening although it feels unthinkable now, my Mums so Intelligent ,smart and wonderful she lost my Dad when she was 38 and because of her wonderful strength of character we (3 girls) have had wonderful lives. It's devastating to see her failing we know what can happen as my Grandfather started the in the same way My Mum is 78 .