Hello, i have been reading forums but its first time to posting on here. My life situation is really hard to tell-
Long story to short, i am private hired for living in carer, basically the lady's son hired me for 24/7. Okay, its everything so nice condition at first, like i get paid and i don't need to pay for living stuff and rent, so great. And i had my grandmother who was sever dementia. So i had a bit more knowledge of dementia. But yes, at first time it was really hard. No matter what i was doing everymorning she got angry to me, saying she can't understand me, and calling me as stupid woman. But now i do understand that i shouldn't take this as personally. and i found out how to cope with those, like when i give her one or two pounds, she getting so happy mood, and she is saying how i am nice lady, and she is even laughting happily.
okay, everything fine, until i found out this problem.
She throw out everything. Whenever i buy food, next day, its gone. When i put black bag to refuse bin, she take it out, and hiding it somewhere, and few days after, its showing (problem : after collection day, so its overflowering because of that reason) and few weeks ago i found out she spreaded out all the trash from black bag to garden, i obviously immediately cleaned everything.
anyone know how to solve this problem?
my first lang is not english so there might be mistake in my sentence, if it that happened, i am sorry in advance.
Long story to short, i am private hired for living in carer, basically the lady's son hired me for 24/7. Okay, its everything so nice condition at first, like i get paid and i don't need to pay for living stuff and rent, so great. And i had my grandmother who was sever dementia. So i had a bit more knowledge of dementia. But yes, at first time it was really hard. No matter what i was doing everymorning she got angry to me, saying she can't understand me, and calling me as stupid woman. But now i do understand that i shouldn't take this as personally. and i found out how to cope with those, like when i give her one or two pounds, she getting so happy mood, and she is saying how i am nice lady, and she is even laughting happily.
okay, everything fine, until i found out this problem.
She throw out everything. Whenever i buy food, next day, its gone. When i put black bag to refuse bin, she take it out, and hiding it somewhere, and few days after, its showing (problem : after collection day, so its overflowering because of that reason) and few weeks ago i found out she spreaded out all the trash from black bag to garden, i obviously immediately cleaned everything.
anyone know how to solve this problem?
my first lang is not english so there might be mistake in my sentence, if it that happened, i am sorry in advance.
and he is also supporting me financially so i am feeling very thanksfully to him. I am just getting stress because of this is whole new job area. I asked here because i want to improve my job skills too 