Hi everyone, I normally live in France but 13 weeks ago I flew back because my Mum had fallen and was in hospital. We found my Dad has dementia, she had been covering it up. Sadly she died 3 weeks ago . Dad will not go into a home, he has carers but there are gaps in the care.He also reacts very badly to me. I do not know what to do, I cannot stay here indefinitley but I cannot neglect him.