I am new today. I have a Mother in law with Alzheimers. She is 91 and lives on her own. She has had this decease for about 5 years but only diagnosed last November. OH and I are going to see brother in law and his wife tonight to discuss for the first time the way forward with her care. They live about 20mins away from us and Mum but hardly see her etc,etc. So wish me luck. Don't want to get angry, just want whats best for her.