I have finally decided to register and post on Talking Point, after much lurking in the past few weeks. My dad had a stroke back in 2000 and was quite disabled by it. He was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer during a stay in hospital last summer - he went in beacuse he suddenly became very confused and disorientated. The confusion never lifted, and after a short stay back in his home, he moved into a nursing home. We thought his confusion was related to the cancer but having spoken to his GP yesterday it seems they have made a 'working' diagnosis of multi-infarct (vascular?) dementia. He has just turned 63, fortunately he appears to have forgotten about the cancer.
Having read all your posts, his symptoms do ring lots of bells. It seems that now he gets muddled as to who I am - a classic conversation happened last Thursday:
Dad - Do you think your mother will mind about the age difference?
Me - I'm not sure what you mean, Dad
Dad - I thought she might get upset when I ask you to marry me - and you will say yes when I ask won't you?
Bless.
I have never been his carer, but hope to share my experiences if it might help anyone. I have been through the Court of Protection procedure as Dad never set up any kind of power of attourney. While obviously no expert, my experience may be of use to others...
Anyway, hope to post more soon. Best wishes to all on Talking Point
Having read all your posts, his symptoms do ring lots of bells. It seems that now he gets muddled as to who I am - a classic conversation happened last Thursday:
Dad - Do you think your mother will mind about the age difference?
Me - I'm not sure what you mean, Dad
Dad - I thought she might get upset when I ask you to marry me - and you will say yes when I ask won't you?
Bless.
I have never been his carer, but hope to share my experiences if it might help anyone. I have been through the Court of Protection procedure as Dad never set up any kind of power of attourney. While obviously no expert, my experience may be of use to others...
Anyway, hope to post more soon. Best wishes to all on Talking Point