Helen and Alan

[Perdita]

Hello Helen, I honestly don't know how I'd feel in your situation, I'm just so sorry

 

[uselessdaughter]

So Sorry

Dear Helen

So very sorry to hear the news about Alan. Sending love and prayers for you and your family ande friends.

Linda

 

[susiesue]

Dear Helen

What awful news and such a shock for you.

Words cannot express how sad I am for you both - you have always been there for me and now it's my turn to help you if I can.

You are continually in my thoughts and hope to speak soon.

Love

 

[Matt's mum]

Oh Helen what dreadful news I am so very sorry.
Lots of love to you both.
ally xxxx

 

[twinone]

Hi Helen

Dont post very often but am so shocked and saddened by your awful news.

I loved seeing the pictures of Alan, he alsways looked so healthy.

I understand your feelings at this time, if you are anything like I was you will still be in shock.

Please know that I am thinking of you both at this very sad time.


Love
Janet

 

[Beezed]

Dear Helen,

I am totally shocked at this terrible turn of events. Everything seems to have happened so quickly.

I will be thinking about you and Alan. So sorry.

Love,

Jeanne

 

[Brokenhearted]

So sorry

Dear Helen,
I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, I'll be thinking of you both.
Bless you,
Brokenhearted x

 

[Barry]

Hi Sylvia
Thanks for letting us know, my thoughts and prayers will be with both Helen and Alan

 

[Rosie]

Im sorry to hear the sad news , thinking of you both, take care Helen & Alan, love & hugs Rosie x

 

[Winnie Kjaer]

Dear Helan and Alan
I am absolutely gutted for you and so terribly sorry to hear your devastating news. I Know you will find the very best care for Alan, but please also make sure you get the support and care you need for yourself. You are only human Helen, you have been on tenderhooks for days so never blaim yourself for reacting to Alan's needs. Please try to find some form of stability whilst Alan has his respite this is going to be a really hard journey but we are all here to support you throughout. My very very best wishes to you both.

 

[Sam Iam]

Helen and Alan, Big ((((HUGS))))) XXXX

 

[DMWalker]

Helen, my thoughts are with you and Alan, this is doubly cruel for you both.

The two of you are so well loved and respected by the amount of posts generated.

Love Dee

 

[Pescita]

Dear Helen

I am so sorry to hear your news.

My father was diagnosed with cancer four years ago. He had ended up in hospital after developing symptoms which we could never have guessed would lead to the eventual diagnosis of bowel cancer (with secondary tumours on his liver & lungs). He had never suffered any of the “typical” symptoms & had always been so fit & active. Everyone who knew him was so shocked. So I do understand a little of the devastation you must feel. In Alan’s case, his difficulties with language would have made it so much harder for him to communicate any symptoms to anyone, if he did have any at an earlier stage.

All I can say to you is accept whatever help & support is offered. If that means things are “taken out of your hands” for a while, so be it. You need time to rally your emotional & practical resources, & you need a rest. You will also be having to deal with the reaction of other members of the family to the news.

If you have a hospice in your area, they can be a fantastic source of support for both sufferer & carer. Our local hospice was a godsend, especially with home care towards to end of Dad's life. I’m sure your GP and/or the hospital will point you in the right direction for whatever services are available to you.

Much love to you & Alan xx

 

[sad nell]

Helen cannot think how to respond to this shock news, you will be strong because that is how you are, i feel bad because i was jealous of how well Alan appeared to be on the surface i am so sorry, i am around anytime you might need an ear or just to let it out,sending all my love to you both, dont often pray but will be having a chat with the big fella tonight, love pam

 

[Mameeskye]

Helen

(((Hugs)))

Please try and get some rest. It is devastating news which you have received and you need time to become accustomed to it.

Thoughts go with you both,

Love

Mameeskye

 

[Brucie]

Hi Helen

so sorry to hear of the events of the day.

I've been all over the place and only had the iPhone, so TP wasn't something I could check sensibly.

My thoughts are with you both.

 

[ChristineR62]

Dear Helen and Alan

I wish I could give you both a hug.

Much love
Christine
xxx

 

[Izzy]

I have come to this thread very late and as with everyone else was stunned by the news. Thinking of you both and pray for strength for you Helen for the coming days. Izzy x

 

[janlyn]

dear helen ,
im so sorry for you both just want to say that we will be here for you shout cry whatever you need to do we will all be with you love and hugs

 

[larivy]

Helen sorry to hear your sad news hope you get all the help you need dont need to tell you we are always here for you make sure you look after your self love larivy