So Dads been gone almost two months & the emotional wreckage is crippling
Heartache doesn’t really describe the feeling ...
I’m not in a great place...
Heartache doesn’t really describe the feeling ...
I’m not in a great place...
Bless you.It’s to be expected . Take care of yourself for however long you need it ..((Hugs)))So Dads been gone almost two months & the emotional wreckage is crippling
Heartache doesn’t really describe the feeling ...
I’m not in a great place...
Sending a massive hug. It's a difficult time. My mum ended surviving the horrors of Alzheimer's after almost three years of being anxious, frightened and only settled when she was asleep.It will be three weeks tomorrow and her funeral is not until a week on Friday. Extreme mixed emotions ranging from overwhelming sadness to relief that she no longer has to suffer her life of absolute torture. Time doesn't take it away but it does help you to cope. I understand and it's dreadful. Sending lots of love xxxxSo Dads been gone almost two months & the emotional wreckage is crippling
Heartache doesn’t really describe the feeling ...
I’m not in a great place...
I have looked into it when the tummy mummy pasted away 18months ago; sadly the waiting list is huge & my needs aren’t as great as others- which is a positive.Hi @DesperateofDevon, it is totally understandable. Have you thought about bereavement counselling? Perhaps if you saw your GP they may be able to arrange it? I ended up going 6 months down the line and it did help - I probably should have gone earlier but in typical bloke fashion I waited until I was a breaking point. I wish you all the best
Bless you, as always you are right & it’s good adviceIt`s very early days @DesperateofDevon
Allow the grief and go with it. It`s unpleasant but perfectly normal.
That’s what my daughter tells me, thank you. XI’m sorry you’re feeling so bereft @DesperateofDevon. I do remember the overwhelming pain of those feelings. I think it stems from having been well loved.