Ok here goes!..have been my dads carer for few years. He has dlb.
My mother who s been cared for by him for 30 yrs (not dementia related ) was asked by us to supervise the taking of medication after i found some lying around behind the sideboard or even still im the packet!
Weeks later not only did she forget her own and twice ive found one left in hers...but last week i found 3 bp tablets pure white behind the sideboard!.. her comes the this is your last chance bit!..my mum in total denial insisted she supervises and hes fine with his tablets..
My dad shakes thinks hes swallowed them and they fly accross room. Hence finding wet tablets. But pure white ones 3 of the same tabs same week. By this time im concerned..he has tias and the tablets are to ward off a stroke...
My dad being anemic..had a never ending pot of iron tablets..and always seems to have them left.
My mother doesnt seem to be aware of this. But if shes supervising him how come there are tablets left???
Then we had few days and night time opened..on a monday morning. Monday am taken the rest just sitting there in reach of my dad.
My mum said it was her fault false nails rushing etc. I then asked what his bloods were?? She didnt know..
I knew that hed self medicated that morning. Clearly got confused and opened several boxes.
Weve already had one overdose..and yes he is diabetic.!
Last week was last chance...and have a guess what??..today i found aspirin behind the sideboard!!..
Again no idea from both of them!!
I dont expect him to comprehend but my mum???
My dad said that he told my mum because he couldnt move it..but my mum had no recollection of it.
Is it me or his he at risk of overdosing again..?? And having not had aspirin or bp for certain days at risk of stroke???..
My sisters response just move the tablets where they cant fall down..
The issue is not just the location of it..its the managing it.
Would love to hear your views..ive emailed ss and memory clinic and will speak to gp !...
I m sure you ll say that im not losing the plot..but this is just unacceptable isnt it???
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My mother who s been cared for by him for 30 yrs (not dementia related ) was asked by us to supervise the taking of medication after i found some lying around behind the sideboard or even still im the packet!
Weeks later not only did she forget her own and twice ive found one left in hers...but last week i found 3 bp tablets pure white behind the sideboard!.. her comes the this is your last chance bit!..my mum in total denial insisted she supervises and hes fine with his tablets..
My dad shakes thinks hes swallowed them and they fly accross room. Hence finding wet tablets. But pure white ones 3 of the same tabs same week. By this time im concerned..he has tias and the tablets are to ward off a stroke...
My dad being anemic..had a never ending pot of iron tablets..and always seems to have them left.
My mother doesnt seem to be aware of this. But if shes supervising him how come there are tablets left???
Then we had few days and night time opened..on a monday morning. Monday am taken the rest just sitting there in reach of my dad.
My mum said it was her fault false nails rushing etc. I then asked what his bloods were?? She didnt know..
I knew that hed self medicated that morning. Clearly got confused and opened several boxes.
Weve already had one overdose..and yes he is diabetic.!
Last week was last chance...and have a guess what??..today i found aspirin behind the sideboard!!..
Again no idea from both of them!!
I dont expect him to comprehend but my mum???
My dad said that he told my mum because he couldnt move it..but my mum had no recollection of it.
Is it me or his he at risk of overdosing again..?? And having not had aspirin or bp for certain days at risk of stroke???..
My sisters response just move the tablets where they cant fall down..
The issue is not just the location of it..its the managing it.
Would love to hear your views..ive emailed ss and memory clinic and will speak to gp !...
I m sure you ll say that im not losing the plot..but this is just unacceptable isnt it???
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