I care for an 88 year old lady with dementia. She lives alone but I go in regularly. I’m still seeing her with the support of her family, but I’m the only one meant to be having face to face contact to keep both her and me safe. She’s still going out and walking down to her granddaughters house, being calmly walked home again. But I cannot seem to get her to wash her hands properly. She’s not even using soap but literally rinsing her fingers under the tap for a few seconds. Any advice? I’ve tried social stories, big signs for her to read and showing her what to do but it’s not going in.