My oh always says I am leaving even if I just got back from shopping for past few days he says I have someone else with me all the time he can see her but don’t no her name .but there’s no one I always go out alone he thinks he as been out when he as not and our home is not our home but the other ladie is there all the timeGoing along with it is sure the best way.. My OH does know I ca t see them but it doesn't make it easier for him.. The o ly time I insist it's not true is when he thi ks I'm leaving with a 'visitor'.. I reasure him I m not.. Give him a cuddle and tell him I m not going anywhere.. Which settles him... Then I go into the kitchen and have a cry.. And carry on... Married 57 years....