I have absolutely had enough. I thought things would get better this year but MIL is still here. 10 years now the latter part waiting on her hand and foot, my husband that is not me. I pulled out of that one as I feel we are being taken for a ride. She has offered no housekeeping in that time and expects 3 meals a day. Now he, husband, has been told he has high blood pressure. Well I'm not surprised. She doesn't wash and let me tell you the smell is unbearable I tried to help her in the past but she went mad when I washed her bed so in all honesty **** it. I know this sound harsh but she ignores me and tells tales to the relatives. Me and my husband need to get in with our lives and now my daughter needs help for very special reasons I need to dedicate my time to her. MIL needs to be in a home. I don't know why my husband won't do it he must see the stress we are in. I'm cleaning her mess off the bathroom floor and putting up with her 'looks'. I know that she is ill but she has always been stubborn and bitchy so I'm not being unreasonable. When will he see that our marriage is going down hill and move her on! She goes to a hone once a week and loves it there so I don't see what the problem is so upset if it wasn't for my daughter I would go
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