Im going to be quite blunt here, so I hope I dont offend you.my husband is only mild really with prompts and some personal care. he still got capacity so i couldnt force him
If you walked out, or took your own life, or ended up in hospital because of your back, what do you think would happen to your husband? Ill tell you what, he would end up in a care home because he wouldnt be able to look after himself, thats what. So why not go for a a couple of weeks of respite which would only be temporary?