had a bad weekend re pain

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  1. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    bob bless him rang doctors for me while i was making cup of tea he got me in for the best doctor at our surgey i praised him big time -not easy to get in with this doctor
    mri scan is back hip is ok but damage to bottom of my spine which she thinks is causing pain in my bub and down leg gave me stronger pain releif she does not think they can operate but not sure i am in to see consultant wednesday as i said to her no one wants an opertation but i wanted them to find somthing to operate onto be out of pain
    love bel x
     
  2. lesmisralbles

    lesmisralbles Account Closed

    Nov 23, 2007
    5,543
    Dear bel & Bob
    Hope you get good new's soon
    Have a good night's sleep tonight bel:D
    LOL
    Barb & Ron XX
     
  3. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    thanks barb and ron

    our doctor knows me well
    i dont want symphy but she has not seen me for a while and the first thing she said was you dont look well you have lost weight
    her mum has dementia and in a home so she understands
    she said on leaving look after yourself as well
    i know she is right but --thanks for listening
    love bel x
     
  4. lesmisralbles

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    Bel
    I will listen to you all night:)
    You have cheered me up so many times, Thank's:)
    Barb XX
     
  5. jude1950

    jude1950 Registered User

    Mar 23, 2006
    182
    Lincolnshire
    Hi Bel,

    Sorry you are in so much pain. If it is your Coccyx that is causing the trouble in extreme cases it can be removed. I had mine removed nearly 20 years ago. The problem is it means a hospital stay and recovery time is at leaast two to three weeks.
    That is hard enough I had a husband and teenage children at the time and they were able to look after me and the home whilst I recovered from the op. Looking after a husband/partner with dementia and recovering from an op like this would be impossible, I don't know what to suggest but you cannot function properly whilst in so much pain have you had a carers assessment done for yourself?
    Sending you a cyber Hug

    Judith
     
  6. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    thanks all cross your fingers for me tommorrow

    i just hope consultant can suggest somthing
    i was pinning all my hopes on an op to get rid of the pain
    bob is sufering cos he sees me in pain as much as i try to hide it and play it down he knows
    and it is hurting him cos there is nothing he can do
    love bel x
     
  7. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    68,658
    Kent
    Good luck for tomorrow bel. I really do hope the consultant will be able to help you with the pain.
    Love xx
     
  8. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    3,388
    Buckinghamshire
    Dear Bel,
    Good Luck for tomorrow.
    Love & Best wishes
    Christine
     
  9. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    thanks all

    went to see consutant
    waste of time
    my fault i was so concerned about getting rid of the pain
    mri was on nhs so he did not have the results
    as i phoned to see him private i am booked in for next wednesday when he will get results from nhs
    love bel x
     
  10. lesmisralbles

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    Nov 23, 2007
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    Oh Bel
    One step forward, two step's back:(
    Sending love
    barb & Ron XX
     
  11. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    one step forward two steps back

    thanks so much for your support
    i feel like i am loosing my mind
    you must feel the same
    love bel x
     
  12. hendy

    hendy Registered User

    Feb 20, 2008
    506
    West Yorkshire
    Dear Bel
    Sorry today didnt go too well. Hope its better news soon. I am sorry your pain is continuing, it must be so difficult.
    take care
    hendy
     
  13. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    68,658
    Kent
    I`m so sorry bel. Nothing eems to go right for you does it.
    Love xx
     
  14. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    nothing seems to go right thanks sylvi

    but the posative bit is bob has not got as verbly agresive as he has lately since i had to have my scooter since i said i cant cope i will walk and i ment it
    talked to niki visiting psycologist today cos i feel guilty putting bob under pressure to try and stop his aggression
    she says no dont feel guilty bob can control some of his aggression and he wants to love bel x
     
  15. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    68,658
    Kent
    Dear bel.
    Of course you mustn`t feel guilty about asking Bob to try to control some of his agression. He probably needs it pointing out to him how much it hurts you, and I`m sure he wouldn`t knowingly want to hurt you.
    Love xx
     
  16. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    thanks sylvi

    he needs it pointing out
    i know he would not hurt me for the world
    love bel x
     
  17. lesmisralbles

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    Nov 23, 2007
    5,543
    Dear Bel
    Is he frightened ?
    Is he scared? Is that why he is angry?
    Barb & Ron XX
     

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