just needed to get this of my chest more on my wifes admission into care home. one morning she was sat having breakfast and an hour later she was in the care home there was no discussion she had no say in it i just packed a case and off we went you could see the bewilderment in her eyes when she was addmited she had no idea what was going on all this happened because i said so, because the previous night i had flipped and decided that i couldnt cope any longer, when she asked the other day if i had come to take her home i said she had to stay until she was better, we all know thats not going to happen. she is only 72 i feel i have condemed her into care for what could be many years. hope i am not around to see it