HI,Have not been on for a while but would like to express how i am feeling at the moment.
Dave is slowly getting more confused by the day and his speech is still affected from the recent mini strokes,but i am having some mixed feelings over his appearance,he will rarely have a shower and haircut and some days he looks like a tramp:when we go out i try to encourage him to have a good wash and put clean clothes on but he will get annoyed with me and say i am nagging,this fills me with guilt as i don!t want to go on at him he always took great pride in himself, now i feel at a loss what to do as i love him so much but there is a slight feeling of shame when people stare at him because of the way he looks as if it is my fault.
I would be grateful to hear if anyone else has been in the same situation.God Bless DOE.
Dave is slowly getting more confused by the day and his speech is still affected from the recent mini strokes,but i am having some mixed feelings over his appearance,he will rarely have a shower and haircut and some days he looks like a tramp:when we go out i try to encourage him to have a good wash and put clean clothes on but he will get annoyed with me and say i am nagging,this fills me with guilt as i don!t want to go on at him he always took great pride in himself, now i feel at a loss what to do as i love him so much but there is a slight feeling of shame when people stare at him because of the way he looks as if it is my fault.
I would be grateful to hear if anyone else has been in the same situation.God Bless DOE.