Hi everyone will try shorten this down as much as possible,
My father was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about a year and a half ago it all started with some memory loss. He continued to live on his own and the problems started when he wandered off a couple of times and got lost and confused then Social work became involved and the next step was them recommending a care home for his own safety. I knew this would have to happen eventually but now that he is there I just feel totally consumed with guilt as my father is still very active and has no other health problems apart from that as he is still young being 68 as the doctor said, he has always been an independent person but it's getting him down that he can't just go out whenever he wants and I don't think he fully understands that he has the condition and why he is in the home. My question is would I be able to take him out and become his full time carer as this is the only option I can see. And also he has bought his property so he would have to sell it and he would only be allowed to keep £16,500 my head is just totally fried as I have too much going on in my head at the same time and don't know where to start with it all
My father was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about a year and a half ago it all started with some memory loss. He continued to live on his own and the problems started when he wandered off a couple of times and got lost and confused then Social work became involved and the next step was them recommending a care home for his own safety. I knew this would have to happen eventually but now that he is there I just feel totally consumed with guilt as my father is still very active and has no other health problems apart from that as he is still young being 68 as the doctor said, he has always been an independent person but it's getting him down that he can't just go out whenever he wants and I don't think he fully understands that he has the condition and why he is in the home. My question is would I be able to take him out and become his full time carer as this is the only option I can see. And also he has bought his property so he would have to sell it and he would only be allowed to keep £16,500 my head is just totally fried as I have too much going on in my head at the same time and don't know where to start with it all