After my Grandad died, my Nan, who has dementia, decided she couldnt live in her own house and wanted to live with my Mum and Dad but unfortunately it all became too much as my Mum and Dad are both in full time work so they placed her into a lovely care home so she could get the care she deserved. The problem was she wasnt completely aware of where she was going. She has been in a year now and seems really settled but my Mum and Dad cant shake the guilt that they put her there. Has anyone else experienced the same situation and if so, how do you deal with it as it is tearing my Dad apart?