Hi Everyone
My MIL has Alzheimers (I would say Stage 5 - she scores around 20 on MMSE but is increasingly confused and not coping - looking at some of your posts I realise that the MMSE does not always correlate with the confusion that can be observed). She has also recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. The consultant treating the breast cancer has decided they will treat her with Tamoxifen in order to slow down the progression of the cancer - she is very frail and it is unlikely she would stand surgery anyway. She is still in total denial of her Alzheimers.
She understands that she has cancer - she does not really comprehend what that means. She does however realise that she must take her tamoxifen tablet daily and this has been added into her blister packs. She has been on 10mcg aricept for 18 months. My problem is that she has started to take too many of the tablets - and then demanding that we leave more for her!!! We obviously have had to take action. Last week she took 3 days worth of tamoxifen in one day - she then claimed that she hadnt taken them - "someone else" must have had them and accused us (my husband and I) of wanting her to die because we wouldnt give her any more tamoxifen!!! We are now leaving the tablets on a daily basis to ensure this doesnt happen again and she now says we are treating her like a child. We have tried to explain why we are doing this, but she just gets angry. It seems there is conflict every time we go at the moment (which is every day as we take them a hot meal). I feel so guilty as in a way, she is right - we are treating her as we would a child, but it is surely our responsibility to keep her safe. I think we are doing the right thing, but it doesnt help the way we feel.
Sorry for the long post - just needed to "share" with people I know will understand.
Tracey
My MIL has Alzheimers (I would say Stage 5 - she scores around 20 on MMSE but is increasingly confused and not coping - looking at some of your posts I realise that the MMSE does not always correlate with the confusion that can be observed). She has also recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. The consultant treating the breast cancer has decided they will treat her with Tamoxifen in order to slow down the progression of the cancer - she is very frail and it is unlikely she would stand surgery anyway. She is still in total denial of her Alzheimers.
She understands that she has cancer - she does not really comprehend what that means. She does however realise that she must take her tamoxifen tablet daily and this has been added into her blister packs. She has been on 10mcg aricept for 18 months. My problem is that she has started to take too many of the tablets - and then demanding that we leave more for her!!! We obviously have had to take action. Last week she took 3 days worth of tamoxifen in one day - she then claimed that she hadnt taken them - "someone else" must have had them and accused us (my husband and I) of wanting her to die because we wouldnt give her any more tamoxifen!!! We are now leaving the tablets on a daily basis to ensure this doesnt happen again and she now says we are treating her like a child. We have tried to explain why we are doing this, but she just gets angry. It seems there is conflict every time we go at the moment (which is every day as we take them a hot meal). I feel so guilty as in a way, she is right - we are treating her as we would a child, but it is surely our responsibility to keep her safe. I think we are doing the right thing, but it doesnt help the way we feel.
Sorry for the long post - just needed to "share" with people I know will understand.
Tracey