I guess sometimes its the seemingly smaller, more trivial things that can cause the most frustration. Beyond doing the most basic things mum is now completely dependant upon me and carers to get meals, dress and look afer her personal hygiene etc. Over the past few years she has developed a habit of grunting/groaning and while I feel awful for saying this, I really find it an annoying habit! I wonder how common this is? In some ways I'm surprised that it is this that seems to be causing me the most irritation right now and feel bad about it.