Hi just home from visiting Mum in the CH and really upset.
Teeth were missing on Sunday when we took her out for a drive and tea at cafe. No conversation but Mum happy looking at people and remarking 'look at that one' and 'she thinks she's it' etc. We had a giggle, together it was fine.
Today the hearing aid is missing AGAIN!!! I have explained over and over Mum does not have any hearing AT ALL in her right ear (childhood accident) and only 20% in her left ear which is why the hearing aid for that ear is so important.
When I arrived I was told her black shoes were missing! Not important but her handbag was also missing - again not that important but the hearing aid (HA for short) might have been in there! Made a thorough search of the bedroom whilst Mum looked through some photos and actually recognised some people, even me from about 30 years ago! No sign of the HA bud did find loads of rubbish and a sodden pad all of which I put in the EMPTY waste bin!
One of the carers found the handbag in another section and two pairs of shoes were crammed into it, lots of leaflets, other peoples cards, plastic gloves and glassses cases but no HA! One carer was sniggering at the contents of the handbag!!! 'she cracks me up!' Actually that is my MUM - I would not dream of disrespecting her! I did not say anything in case poor Mum suffers repercussions. Was told one of the other residents is getting quite cross with Mum! the eeks are because I was told this with a snigger!!!!
They seem to find it amusing to inform me that Mum 'pilfers' stuff belonging to others Hello, Mum has dementia is she really supposed to act like normal people?????
Poor Mum's chin wobbled when I was leaving, told me she hated it there. She seemed lucid I am in bits.
Can't type much more. Who is to blame for the missing teeth and HA?
I feel like swearing a lot just now.
Teeth were missing on Sunday when we took her out for a drive and tea at cafe. No conversation but Mum happy looking at people and remarking 'look at that one' and 'she thinks she's it' etc. We had a giggle, together it was fine.
Today the hearing aid is missing AGAIN!!! I have explained over and over Mum does not have any hearing AT ALL in her right ear (childhood accident) and only 20% in her left ear which is why the hearing aid for that ear is so important.
When I arrived I was told her black shoes were missing! Not important but her handbag was also missing - again not that important but the hearing aid (HA for short) might have been in there! Made a thorough search of the bedroom whilst Mum looked through some photos and actually recognised some people, even me from about 30 years ago! No sign of the HA bud did find loads of rubbish and a sodden pad all of which I put in the EMPTY waste bin!
One of the carers found the handbag in another section and two pairs of shoes were crammed into it, lots of leaflets, other peoples cards, plastic gloves and glassses cases but no HA! One carer was sniggering at the contents of the handbag!!! 'she cracks me up!' Actually that is my MUM - I would not dream of disrespecting her! I did not say anything in case poor Mum suffers repercussions. Was told one of the other residents is getting quite cross with Mum! the eeks are because I was told this with a snigger!!!!
They seem to find it amusing to inform me that Mum 'pilfers' stuff belonging to others Hello, Mum has dementia is she really supposed to act like normal people?????
Poor Mum's chin wobbled when I was leaving, told me she hated it there. She seemed lucid I am in bits.
Can't type much more. Who is to blame for the missing teeth and HA?
I feel like swearing a lot just now.