Hi there
I am new to this site so will introduce myself first. My name is Tracey and my Gran has Alzheimers Disease, which she has had for the past 5 years or so. Recently she has been in a nursing home as she requires 24 hrs a day care. Over the past 10 days she has quickly been unable to eat, shaking and choking if food is given to her. Up until then she was a great eater and becuase she always forgot she had meals, she would always say yes to anyone if they offered her more food. In 5 days she had lost 5lbs. Now she has been admitted to hospital because she is unable to eat or drink, is double incontinet. I feel really worried now and helpless, I want to help her but don't know how to. She looks really frail and old and has a sweet, sickly kind of smell coming from her breath. The doctor has said basically they can't do anything for her, there is no sign of infection (previously thought she had a bowel infection) and she keeps pulling out her drip so they can't get any fluids into her. Don't know if we should be pushing them to do further investigations (endoscopy etc) or leave her be and not put her though any more pain and discomfort. Can anyone advise what to expect, or how to help. Because of bed shortgages etc, doctors want to send her back to the nursing home, surely this means its just a matter of time. My Gran is at the stage where she gets confused with us, misktaking us for other people, can't remember who we are and believing her husband and sister are still alive. I'd really appreciate someones advice.
Thanks
Tracey
I am new to this site so will introduce myself first. My name is Tracey and my Gran has Alzheimers Disease, which she has had for the past 5 years or so. Recently she has been in a nursing home as she requires 24 hrs a day care. Over the past 10 days she has quickly been unable to eat, shaking and choking if food is given to her. Up until then she was a great eater and becuase she always forgot she had meals, she would always say yes to anyone if they offered her more food. In 5 days she had lost 5lbs. Now she has been admitted to hospital because she is unable to eat or drink, is double incontinet. I feel really worried now and helpless, I want to help her but don't know how to. She looks really frail and old and has a sweet, sickly kind of smell coming from her breath. The doctor has said basically they can't do anything for her, there is no sign of infection (previously thought she had a bowel infection) and she keeps pulling out her drip so they can't get any fluids into her. Don't know if we should be pushing them to do further investigations (endoscopy etc) or leave her be and not put her though any more pain and discomfort. Can anyone advise what to expect, or how to help. Because of bed shortgages etc, doctors want to send her back to the nursing home, surely this means its just a matter of time. My Gran is at the stage where she gets confused with us, misktaking us for other people, can't remember who we are and believing her husband and sister are still alive. I'd really appreciate someones advice.
Thanks
Tracey