hello
My gorgeous grandma is in the final stages of dementia she had a seizure last monday and hasnt eaten since then she is now not taking fluids as she cant swallow. I have been to see her today and it’s broken me, i feel guilty that i havent stayed with her she is in a care home and they have been fantastic with her the past 2 years and they have assured my mum they will ring as soon as the time comes and we are still visiting every day but i feel like i shouldnt have left her what if she ends up dying on her own and what if she is frightened and no one is there. I love her and dont want to loose her but dont want her suffering either. Thank you x
My gorgeous grandma is in the final stages of dementia she had a seizure last monday and hasnt eaten since then she is now not taking fluids as she cant swallow. I have been to see her today and it’s broken me, i feel guilty that i havent stayed with her she is in a care home and they have been fantastic with her the past 2 years and they have assured my mum they will ring as soon as the time comes and we are still visiting every day but i feel like i shouldnt have left her what if she ends up dying on her own and what if she is frightened and no one is there. I love her and dont want to loose her but dont want her suffering either. Thank you x