Hi,
Thank you far asking after me, I guess I'm just going through the motions of everything.... All arrangements have been made, a million phone calls etc.... It just feels strange, mum not being here anymore Suppose it's going to take time.
Thank you once again Lyn xx
I lost my Mum 3 months ago so I know how you feel. Funerals are the final goodbye but I was determined Mam's was going to be a celebration of her wonderful life. It truly was. We were extremely sad but I gave her the best send off and she would have loved it. It doesn't get any easier after the funeral. In fact I've found it harder as the phone suddenly stops ringing. I hope next week goes ok for you. Take care. Xx
I hope your goodbye to your Mum is exactly as you want it to be and how she would have wanted it too. I'm sure it will be as you so obviously care so much.
As I have said to you on Kassy's thread, it won't be final as your mother's spirit will continue to live in your heart. x
The silent phone! Oh yes, I have one of those too.
The world is a quiet place after the funeral is over.
Life will go on for you Vicky but take your time.
There is no rush to overcome grief so take each day as it comes.
You will be able to smile at memories of your mother but sometimes, you will weep.
That's what love is all about. xxx
Thinking of you Vicky,and wishing you strength for tomorrow.xx
I do understand,i felt the same Vicky.
You will get through it,and we are here if you need us.xx
I hope today has gone as you planned it Vicky and as your mother would have wished.
An unreal and restless time will follow if it's anything like I've had since my husband died 2 months ago. Just try to take each day as it comes, it's all I've been able to do. xxx
I've been thinking about you today Vicky-I do hope that everything has been ok.
Such a sad time for you and your family
Love from
Lyn T XXXX
Hi Vicky.I'm glad your mum got a beautiful send off,and the funeral went well.
Be kind to yourself now,sending hugs.x
Surviving!Thank you for asking Vicky,you are very kind.x
It's 7 weeks today since mum left us.........
I go on holiday tomorrow.......
It's going to be strange, not being able to go sit in mum's room for 2 weeks.....